Ok so if anyone would read this in the future...
the problem was with community.rules set
while trying to test the config:
snort -T console -q -c /etc/snort/snort.conf -i eht0
ERROR: /var/signatures/snort/processed/custom/snort3-community.rules(16) Unknown rule option: 'service'.
Fatal Error, Quitting..
deleted community rule set trough gui and now everything works !